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This Blog is Currently on Auto-Pilot

Some of you might already know, I’m on vacation. But, since I usually schedule my posts in advance anyways, this week will be pretty normal as far as posting goes, I just won’t be conversing and replying to comments much.

 

However, that doesn’t mean we can’t have a little fun around here. A brief survey for you, and I’d encourage further conversation on the topic to follow…

Would You Rather: Jackhammer your own kneecap off OR Melon ball your own eye ball out?

(visit the site to cast your vote)

Would You Rather…




This is my wife’s famous would you rather, so props to her.

Why Wheaton’s Diversity Matters

wheaton(this is not an April Fools post. This is a rough rough draft of an article I’m working on to submit to the Wheaton Record, the student newspaper at my alma mater, Wheaton College. I could really, really use some feedback on it. Is it effective in keeping your attention and making the point? Should I cut anything out, clarify… I could really use your feedback, thanks)

Why Wheaton’s Diversity Matters

Wheaton College, as an academic institution and as a Christian community, recognizes the importance of diversity. I saw an indication of this when I received my acceptance letter in the spring of 2001. You see, when Wheaton, as well as many other colleges, looks at applicants for admission, they take into consideration additional factors beyond simple academic performance. Wheaton does so because it recognizes the importance of a diverse student body. For example, there is special consideration for student athletes because we recognize the benefit sports bring to a college community. And there was special consideration for me, and many of you when you enrolled at this fine institution, simply because you are a male.

It’s no secret women, and particularly Wheaton women, are smarter then men. Incoming Wheaton females have higher gpa’s then Wheaton males, and the reality is that if admission was on academic qualification alone, Wheaton’s student body would probably be around 70% female. Yet, Wheaton College, for the benefit of both sexes and the community, intentionally maintains around a 50/50 female-to-male ratio. Why is that? Because Wheaton College recognizes the importance of diversity.

As was announced recently, Wheaton’s current president, A. Duane Litfin, will be retiring in the summer of 2010 and a presidential selection committee has been formed to choose the new president. In putting together the concise “qualifications desired” for the next president, the selection committee also recognized the importance of diversity, including this statement under “Commitment”

  • To champion ethnic, economic, and gender diversity

In addition, the Selection Committee has been proactive in seeking out diverse candidates, including advertising the position in publications like Diversity in Higher Ed and Hispanic Educator.

Yet, despite a commitment to diversity, the selection committee contains only two women, out of ten positions, and one African American. It seems the importance of a gender balance in the student body, that I benefited from, does not carryover into areas such as selection committees, and highly unlikely it will carryover into consideration of presidential candidates.

Am I asking the selection committee to consider only female and minority candidates? If only I would be so bold. That would seem terribly unreasonable at this stage and so instead I ask this of the Selection Committee: Please take into careful consideration the depth of value the experiences of a female or minority candidate bring to the position of college president.

Wheaton College has had seven presidents in it’s 150 year history, Litfin’s tenure beginning in 1993. All seven of the past presidents have been white males and, if we are honest, we should acknowledge that our historical prejudices would not have allowed it otherwise. Compared to other academic institutions, Christian college presidents (in the CCCU) are far whiter and more male then their secular counterparts (no minority CCCU presidents and only 2% female, compared to 12.8% and 21.1% respectively in all national institutions).

If Wheaton College is as committed to diversity as we say we are, as the presidential qualifications acknowledge our commitment, and our admission consideration regarding gender acknowledges, then it behooves us to make diversity of primary importance in considering the next leader of this great academic institution.

(Ariah is currently collaborating with other alumni, faculty and current students on a collective statement to the Selection Committee regarding the importance of diversity to their selection of the next president. If you are interested in being a part of that statement or would be willing to help gather signatures, please email him)

Quick Question About Comments

Just a Friday off-hand question: What do you think of the comment system on Trying To Follow?

I switched a month or so ago to this comment system called InstenseDebate, mainly because it allowed for commenting replies via email (an amazing feature). I had one or two glitches along the way, but I’ve been happy with it so far. Curious if any of you are using the reply by email feature when you receive replies to your comments. If so, what do you think? If not, would you consider trying it?

The other related question is that I was considering implementing the ability to comment through your facebook account. So many people are already on facebook, this switch would both make commenting easier for you and allow your comments to be posted in the Facebook news feed. Does that interest folks or not really?

Just checking in, thanks for humoring me by engaging in conversation

Power In Numbers: Trying To Follow Activism

fistpumpLess then a week ago, I blogged about a family in South Africa that I knew personally who were raising support to bring an Autism Therapist to their hometown. I’m happy to report today that they’ve raised above and beyond what they needed! Thanks to everyone who donated and contributed to the efforts.

 

The success of that small effort got me thinking about the power we can have when we collectively rally around something. Reminded me of the famous Margaret Mead quote:

“Never underestimate the power of a small group of committed people to change the world. In fact, it is the only thing that ever has."

It does seem these days we are all inundated with email and online petitions to sign about every single cause under the sun. You could probably spend your whole day inside blogging about and signing petitions, and at the end of the day, I’m not sure what the result would be, or if you’d be happy with it. From the little I know about political engagement, a thousand signatures on an online petition doesn’t mean much, a few hundred basically form emails means a tiny bit more, but a small amount of personal hand-written and mailed letters, or intentional phone conversations can have a significant impact.

In the same way, a handful of committed folks taking specific actions could have an impact in many areas far beyond political.

 

I’d love to form a small group of bloggers and readers who committed to taking 5-10 minutes a week, or maybe a month to start, to take action on a specific action that we choose. The focus would be primarily on non-financial actions, ideally things that could be globally focused, but local specific actions as well.

 

I just think a committed group would have more motivation to take action on task then individually being inundated with facebook and email requests. I don’t know, maybe that’s just me.

 

This is just an idea and a brainstorm. I’d love to hear your thoughts. Let me know if your interested and what you think this could look like, or if you’ve had similar success in other areas.

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Odds and Ends

Sorry, this week hasn’t been the best for constructive thought, but I do have a lot of odds and ends bouncing around in my head. Hopefully you find one of them interesting…

  • While working on my taxes I started brainstorming ways to ‘beat the system’ you figure if the uber-rich can figure out all these tax loopholes maybe there is one or two I could utilize. Everyone has different opinions on taxes, and to the degree that they found things I’m in support of, I like them too. At the same time, I’d rather be taxed on how much we’re living on, rather then how much we make. I know you can get deductions for donating money, but I’ve wondered if there is some way to funnel money, pre-tax to an organization you support or something like that. Any ideas?
  • We are going through some exciting changes in the Fine household. Sorry for not sharing more details, but this being a totally public page, I’m just not sure what’s okay and what’s not. If you want the inside scoop you’ll have to contact me.
  • I finally got the Archive page on the site to work. Just so you know it’s a HEFTY page (5mb) so don’t check it out if your on dialup. But if you’ve got a fast connection, it’s a nice visual layout of my blog’s archive. I’m gonna try and slim it down in size and content a little but that will come later.
  • After successfully reading a book a week last year, I’ve managed to read zero books in 2.5 months this year. I need to set some sort of goal to start reading again. Maybe a set amount of time, like 15 minutes a day. Seem reasonable?
  • On the reading note: I’d really love to read essays (and possibly books) from people who have completely different views then me. If anyone out there has an essay that you think will really challenge my thinking, I’d love if you sent it my way. It could be about anything, politics, religion, money, food, etc. If enough people could send me stuff I’d love to do a weekly post in summary and response to what I read.
  • I was considering getting a new digital camera this week. Mainly because the video on our current one has this high-pitched hissing sound on all the audio. So, I started looking for a digital camera (currently have a Canon Powershot). Then I thought about just getting a separate video camera, then I thought about a DSLR. Now I have no clue. What do you have (if any)? Do you like your camera/video camera? Is a separate video and camera worth it? Superfluous? Too much to carry?
  • Lastly, I was considering doing a series on money saving tips. Just suggestions based on our experience on what we do to save money on day to day purchases, etc. Any interest?

Open Thread: Let’s Chat

I’ve seen this done on some big blogs, but never on tiny little things like mine. I didn’t have anything profound or worthwhile to write for today so I thought I’d try to just leave it completely open. If you have something you always wanted to ask me or say on the blog, or ask other readers, or just put on the “internet” then go ahead and leave a comment about it. I’ll do my best to further the dialog.

Ask The Readers: How Do You Diffuse a Tense Situation?

10675300_aa37cabd63I’ve really been enjoying the dialog in the comment section lately. It’s so cool when someone comes across an old post and adds a thought, and then suddenly others who had previously added their thoughts join in. It reminds me of one of the reason I enjoy writing my thoughts on this blog, it’s the great thoughts and input I receive from you in the comments. That said, I figure it’d be worth starting a little series dedicated to just that, the discussion. And fortunately, it’ll get some questions that have been nagging at me answered (and provide me some needed help).

Today, I’m wondering what you do to diffuse a tense situation. There’s all kinds of tense situations we run into, political or religious tensions with acquantinces, butting heads with a co-worker, dealing with a toddler, resolving conflict with your spouse. I’m wondering how you deal with it, in one or all of those areas. Any stellar, yet rare, advice on how to diffuse tension?

We had a creative idea once for diffusing marital conflict, but neither of us has been very good at inacting it. We decided that if any conversation or argument started escalating, either one of us should break into the Chicken Dance. The other had to join in. How could you possibly be mad after doing an impromptu chicken dance with your spouse?! (patent pending)

How Do You Diffuse a Tense Situation?

Same Great Blog, New Location: TryingToFollow.com

Trying To Follow Now at TryingToFollow.com

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Well folks, it was finally time to move Trying To Follow the blog to it’s rightful location at TryingToFollow.com. You probably got here by typing in the old url http://blog.iamnotashamed.net, but if you don’t mind taking a minute and bookmarking this new URL, it would be much obliged.

There’s a few obvious reasons for the switch to TryingTofollow.com:

  • It’s easier to remember
  • It’s shorter
  • I’m now more ashamed then I once was

Mainly, I intended to switch the url several years ago, but I had mistakenly locked it into the black hole that is Microsoft Office Live. Turns out it was easier to release then I thought (now that someone created a simple tutorial). But at the time I just couldn’t figure it out and Microsoft was of no help at all.

The old url will stay active for the next year, and the urls should all properly redirect to the correct page, but let’s stay fresh people. If you currently have my site hyperlinked on your blogroll or elsewhere, I’d love if you take a minute to change the URL when you have a chance. And if you haven’t added Trying To Follow yet, why don’t you consider it now?

Alright, sorry for the random housekeeping post. I’ll keep it short so you have the extra time to change your links, bookmarks and blogrolls. Go, do it now!

Trying To Follow, The Book?

I wanted to do NaNoWriMo again last year, but just didn’t have the time. Then, Createspace had a free Pro Plan deal going on and so I registered a book name, but I don’t have any material. Basically, what I’m saying is I’ve got a book-writing itch (or at least compiling). Yeah, crazy or a waste of time, but something to keep my mind occupied, so humor me.

I’d like to compile the best posts from the blog that I’ve written over the years. Something simple, concise, and covering a wide range of topics. Maybe something you long time readers would be interested in purchasing to pass along to your non-blog reading friends. Who knows.

I’d like to rework some of my previous posts and re-post them for additional feedback and thoughts. I’d also love to incorporate good comments into a final print form some how. If you’ve ever seen a good example of incorporating comments into a book I’d love to hear about it.

I was thinking something under 100 pages, which I could list on Amazon for less then $4 (plus shipping)

So, that’s all. I’m working on compiling what I think have been print worthy posts over the past couple years. If you have any suggestions of ones you’d like to see let me know. And if your interested in purchasing a copy when I’m done let me know that too.

PSA: Back Up Your Hard Drive

This is a Public Service Announcement. Back Up your Computer Hard Drive!

harddriveIn the last month we managed to fry two hard drives on my wife’s macbook. The first one lasted a year and a half and suddenly stopped working and after getting it replaced (fortunately under warranty) the replacement fizzled out just a month later (right after we’d reconfigured everything the way we liked it). Fortunately, neither of us are in school anymore and so nothing immediately essential was lost. I’ve also backed up our music files recently enough that we didn’t lose much, expect for a years worth of Photobooth photos, which is quite sad. The moral of the story is back up your hard drive. Here’s a few more stories to solidify the point.

My laptop fizzled out in November, I had the good fortune of being able to pull out the functional hard drive, but it was a close call for a lot of photos of my beautiful one year old. Some friends of ours had their laptop stolen which did have the only copies of almost all the photos of their one year old on it. That’s a lot of memories just gone. Another friend, a Phd student writing her disertation, had her laptops hard drive crash on her. Hopefully an expensive recovery service will be able to get her data back. The lesson: Back up your data.

We use computers and digital media for everything these days, primarily things we value highly like photos and documents and things of high value (like music). Having some close calls with our own data and hearing some horror stories from others reminded me to get on the Backup Bandwagon. I’ll let you know what I’m doing and I’d encourage you to do something similar. Below are the steps I’ve taken to keep things in working, backed up and syncronized order.

  1. I’ve backed up our music and photos on DVD. This is mostly our older photos and music. With the amount of photos we take and the file sizes these days this isn’t a very feasible option to stay on top of, but it is a good idea.
  2. I purchased a flickr.com account. There are a lot of benefits to remote storage. It’s online which means it can’t be stolen or destroyed (in a system crash or house fire or something). And I don’t have to pay to power another drive to keep my photos continual synced there. This might seem minor, but the reality is that keeping your hard drive plugged and on probably cost about $2 a month in electricity anyways. Flickr is $24.95 a year for unlimited storage. For now, it seems like a pretty good deal. (Some say you shouldn’t trust online sites either, but Flickr, owned by Yahoo, seems a pretty safe bet. Just don’t trust them with your only copies of photos). There also seems to be some other free backup options I didn’t see before listed here.
  3. I’m remotely syncing my recent files to my FTP server. Again, this might be overkill for some of you, but if your a student or use your computer for daily business it’s worth considering. I have webspace so this isn’t an additional cost for me. And I use SyncBack to automate the process so I never have to think about it. For an option to sync your documents with google docs try this. I’ve also used Live Sync to sync between computers or just online.
  4. I bought a 500gb external Hard Drive. As we continually add more and more photos and data to our computer we are going to need a lot more space. Hard Drives are pretty cheap these days, and allow you to have instant access to all your files, and back up everything quickly (as opposed to DVD’s or web). I’d recommend you buy one and back up everything at least monthly (if not weekly). You can use SyncBack to set up an automated backup or Sync so you can leave it plugged in and not think about it, or just put it on your calendar. You can find good prices on Hard Drives here.

Anyways, that’s my advice. I advocate for penny-pinching free ways to get by a lot, but this is one area I think is probably worth spending a few bucks to make sure you never have to weep over lost memories or term papers. If you have any tips, include them in the comments.