I’d just written a brilliant and funny short post during a quick 10 minute break I have here, when my computer decided to hiccup and forget I ever typed anything. Seeing as I’m at work and I’ve neglected to download a keylogger, I experienced the horrible feeling that so many folks across the globe feel every so often, I lost my work.
Why haven’t I experienced that feeling in so long? Why, you might ask, did I go through college without ever lamenting over a lost paper, and staying up till 3AM to catch up? Oh, the joys of keylogger.
Now, just a disclaimer, keyloggers do qualify as spyware, and if your not careful you’ll delete them everytime you clean up your computer with your Spyware Checkers. But, keylogger’s also record every key you press (as it’s doing right now). And when that webpage decides to reject you, you can just hop over and copy and paste that sucker back in. I’ve used Family Keylogger for quite a while, but I’m currently trying out Emsa Save my Work. I’d recommend either for Everyone.
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Why I don’t shop at Walmart
This topic always draws a lot of feedback. The thing is from the moment someone starts to talk, or write, you usually have a good idea what side of the fence they are on. I fear-and I’m speaking about myself too-that too often we are choosing what side of the fence we want to be on, and then just finding evidence to back it up. Maybe it’s cause you had a bunch of liberal friends, or you hung out with the grunge crowd, some external pressure just decided for you that you hated Walmart, and since then you’ve found all kinds of reasons why this is true. For others it’s their republican upbringing, their support of “Christian” values, or their love of low prices that swayed their decision and now they’ve found all kinds of reasons to support that choice. Honestly, I probably fall into one of those categories, but give me a minute to share with you why I personally avoid Walmart.
At some point in my movement towards maturity, I recognized the significance of personal responsibility. I realized that with any situation, regardless of the reasons behind it or circumstances concerning it, my involvement (or passive silence) would show my support for it. If something is against the rules, and I say nothing about it, I show my support for it. If my government, of which I am a part, makes a decision and I say nothing about it, I support it. I need to take responsibility for those things. If I am ever confronted on those things (and I have this strange feeling I might be), I will not be able to pass blame like Adam did, I will be held accountable for my decisions.
I’ve definitely made poor decisions in the past. I remember being in high school and seeing a sign posted above a drinking fountain in the hallway. Walmart and Sweatshops was the topic, and I passed it by without a second thought. Interesting that I can remember that now, but it had no bearing on me then. For a number of years I had been aware of this, and I did nothing.
At some point later, maybe after I had been exposed to some facts, seen some video, and been confronted a few more times, I realized that important lesson on personal responsibility. Suddenly, the weight of the responsibility was heavy on me. I never went through a research project of weighing the Pros and Cons of Walmart. To be honest most of this debate about whether Walmart is good or bad seems to miss the point for me. I’m not saying it doesn’t have significance, but it gets us into a balance game, and I’m not interested in that.
This is the one fact that disturbs me. Close your eyes. Think about the shirt you are wearing. Trace it back through the store you bought it from, back past being packaged, past being shipped, and to the place it was stitched and sewn together. I’m terrified when I do that and I see a small child, dirty and weary from 18 hours a day of labor, looking into my eyes and awaiting an explanation. What will I say to that little girl? What does taking responsibility mean for me there?
I cannot in good conscience buy from a store where I am aware that that is where the items came from. Does Walmart employ sweatshops? I’m not sure, but I’ve heard evidence of it, and the mere possibility scares me. Do other Stores employ sweatshops? Probably many other stores do, and as I become aware of them, my purchasing decisions and opportunities will become more and more difficult; But that in NO way allows me to disregard my responsibility. Do ALL stores employ sweatshops? I do not believe so. I know of a number of fair trade clothing stores whose goal and focus is to be sweatshop free.
I’m not advocating a boycott; I don’t know enough about economics, etc to make a strong decision on that. I do think that when a company like Walmart is in the news for bad practices, it should affect our spending habits. When Martha Stewart goes to jail our continued purchases send the message that we don’t care about her breaking the law. When we read that Coca-Cola has been polluting the water in India, our continued purchasing sends the message that we do not care. I long for someone with much more brilliance then I to come along and give me a plan for making choices and organizing in a way that will affect change for the good. Are you that person?
I leave you with this. As a friend, I want to admonish you. I am aware of some facts that might or might not be true about Walmart. Please stop shopping there until you have examined the facts. [facts to be found on your own, so as to avoid any bias on this site]
Sharing our feelings on race
Every so often something comes up that brings race and racism to the fore front of many people’s minds. For many these topics are often at the forefront, for some of us white folk it sits absent in the back of our mind until something comes up.
For a lot of people I know, the issue recently came up, prompted by two different events. First, the issue of race was starkly brought up around the events of Hurricane Katrina. If folks didn’t pick up on it from the get-go, they most certainly did after Kanye West made his bold confession on national television. One of the major issues was the bias (though a LOT of people disagree on this) news stories. Also, for those with a little awareness, the clear overwhelming majority of people that where stuck in New Orleans and the slow response of aid should have been disturbing both from an economic and racial perspective.
Second, the movie Crash recently came out on DVD and was viewed by a number of my friends. It is a very in-your-face approach to a lot of race issues and problems. The movie lacks any clear attempt at a solution and that has both a positive and a negative effect. I think on a positive note, they recognized that there is not a simple solution and to attempt to convey one might come across as naive or ignorant. At the same time, the lack of any solution presented leaves some people feeling that there isn’t any solutions, but also that that is then okay and acceptable. I worry that too many people left that movie feeling that that is just the way life is, and that we are all good people in the end, so we shouldn’t make a big deal out of it.
I’m a well-to-do white male, so I’m the last person to be spouting my thoughts and opinions on race, but I will take every opportunity to speak up and add a voice to the cry for justice. There is FAR too much racism in the world today. We must all rise up to the challenge and respond. Do not sit silently as you hear a racist joke, speak up, at the expense of your own reputation, it must be stopped.
In light of all this, I was very interested in providing a way for people to share their personal feelings about race, and about how others have treated them in regard to race. I’ve always found the statement promoted for communication and conflict resolution: “I feel…When you…” I’ve put together a small website for people to have the opportunity to share those feelings and put them out in the open for others to read and learn from. Please stop by and add your feelings.
Thinking about “charity”
Not being in school any longer I have to go to a little more effort to learn new things. One of my joys is hearing what my friends are learning or researching in their schooling. My friend Ben has been taking an Old Testament studies class and has heard some interesting presentations. One of them was about Maimonides’ Eight Levels of Charity from the Mishneh.
It’s an extremely interesting way to look at giving and for us to consider our motives.
- The greatest level is helping someone enough that they no longer need help. I wonder if sponsoring a child might possibly fall into this category. Other then that these stories are more rare then I would imagine. I would hope to find more opportunity to do this in my life.
- Anonymous giving through a trustworthy administrator is given the second highest status. I find this surprising since it seems to divorce our giving from our personal relationships, which I’m not sure is a good thing. At the same time this does encourage giving to the many organizations that help our neighbors overseas.
- Anonymously giving to someone you know.
- Giving anonymously, though the receiver knows his benefactor. I’m unsure how they decided the order of levels 3 and 4, but I’m glad they differentiated them no less.
- Giving directly into the hand of someone in need WITHOUT being asked. I like the specifics of this one being giving directly into the persons hand. There doesn’t seem to be much disclaimer on this, and there shouldn’t be. I do recall stories of people trying to help someone without being asked where the person took offense, or didn’t really need anything, but they are rare. The majority of the time we are scrooges until someone makes a request of us (I know because I am horrible at this).
- Giving after being asked. This, if I’m not mistaken, is the way the vast majority of us give
- Giving INADEQUATELY, but gladly. And I think we ALL do this one a lot of the time.
- Giving unwillingly. Yeah, not so noble.
What do you think of these categories?
Edwards inspired Resolutions
So back in the day I had a youth group leader named Jamie…he introduced me to a amazing preacher guy named John Piper…Piper turned me on to a theologian stud named Jonathan Edwards. Edwards was hardcore and had a running list of some 70 resolutions. I mentioned some of the resolutions in the article I wrote for Relevant, but here is the extended list with a little explanation if necessary.
Resolved… to in every way live my life in such a way that these are seen in my life.
…To buy nothing for the sole purpose of convenience (eating out, garage door opener, etc.) or to in any way further (in a worldly sense) my own image (clothes, shoes, hair, car).
…To in no way let my “rules” infringe on another’s well being, or cause them to judge, or create a stumbling block for them. (not eating out, cause I don’t want to)
…Never to willingly put myself in a place of great temptation, to be careful to weigh the reasons to be in that place.
…To not let Satan use the last resolve to keep me from bringing God’s truth to anyone, of filling God’s purpose anywhere.
…To make full use of every minute of time as it were my last, and to analyze this time use often.
…To daily each morning come to God and bask in his grace for another day before me, to enjoy Him and his work on this earth.
…Not to allow fear of man to keep me from any task.
Stay tuned for part II.
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“The most violent society on earth” really?
I was browsing through my New Man magazine, courtesy of my dad, and came across an interesting movie advertisement. End of The Spear is a new movie about Jim Elliot, Nate Saint, and three others and their families contact with the Waodani Tribe in Ecuador. In high school, I was a fan of Jim Elliot, having been quite inspired by his memiors, Shadow of the Almighty. Though, I do think their intentions where good, I’ve started to question the way their mission was carried out.
What struck me about this advertisement was this statement:
50 years ago five families dared to make contact with the most violent society on earth.
I’d personally like to see a reference for that fact. I’ll look up the statistics in a minute, but I would suggest violent might properly be measured by “number of people killed” or something similiar. My guess would be the USA is probably the most violent society on earth. I’m mean really, how do you measure something like that? Let’s see what statistics we can pull up on google…
- Yes, this society has created sick, violent individuals, after all it is the most violent society on earth.
- Although an unpopular proposition, the assertion that America is the most violent society on earth is true.
- …one dedicated group’s incredible will and desire to save the most violent society on earth
- South Africa may be the most violent society on earth that is not at war.
Getting published: The year past and the year to come
2005 was an exciting year in my writing career. I started off with the ambitions of being a regular writer for my school newspaper, The Wheaton Record, and I finished the year having written multiple articles for a national publication (website). Let me give you a rundown.
In January 2005 I wrote a piece for The Wheaton Record concerning the life of Martin Luther King, Jr. In February, after much thoughtful dialogue with friends at Wheaton and online, I wrote a piece entitled, What Would it Take, looking at Walmart and our consumerism and the impact of where we spend our dollars. Finally, in late April I wrote a letter to my fellow seniors encouraging them to begin tithing regularly after graduation.
After reading What would it Take, someone suggested that I submit it to Relevant Magazine and see if they might publish it. It was a delight and a surprise when, less then a month later, Won Kim, the managing editor sent me this email:
Hey Ariah,Posted your article in the life section of the site a day ago. Very challenging and insightful … It’s awesome when a submission doesn’t have to be preachy but intellectually challenging … It lets our readers follow it all the way thru and collect their thoughts.
Hope to hear more from you.
Best,
won
I was estatic and a couple days later I was added to the list of regular freelance writers for the Revolution section. The article generated more discussion and dialogue then any other article I had seen posted on Relevant. It was that feedback that pushed me to set up THIS blog in an effort to capture interested readers.
I quickly had two articles lined up to be posted at the launch of the new Relevantmagazine.com site, which ended up being two months of eager anticipation and delays. I've since had multiple articles published at the Relevantmagazine.com site discussing everything from world hunger and 9/11, stewarship in college, fair trade consumerism, genocide in Darfur, and the Earthquake in Pakistan.
In Order: What Would it Take, Poor College Students, Remembering 9/10, Crisis in Darfur, Earthquake in Pakistan, Fair Trade at the Supermarket, New Year's Resolutions. (click on the image for an image of the page, click on the linked titles to go to the Relevant Magazine website posting of the article, and leave a comment if you do).
The year concluded with another exciting development, my article (edited by Jesse Carey) about New Year's Resolutions was the featured article on the email newsletter, 850 words of Relevant.
Looking Forward
What will this next year bring for my writing and publishing? I'm excited to announce that I'm hoping to have my first print article (and paid) published early this year. In addition, I'm looking to start submitting articles to other publications. I'd love to have something in Geez Magazine before 2007.
The 8th Night of Hanukkah
This Festival of Lights has come and gone without me lighting the Menorah even once. Being all by my Jewish self has caused my desire for hording candles to overcome tradition. I guess I should bring out the Jew in me and have a small fire in my living room tonight.
So, I caught wind of a handful of email forwards before the holidays; The “Taking the Christ out of Christmas” type stuff. I didn’t pay much attention to it all, at least not before Christmas had come and gone. Now, I’d like to speak my mind on a little of it. Here I am, very much Jewish and also Christian, having celebrated and planning on continuing to celebrate BOTH Christmas AND Hanukkah. I don’t much care whether all the hype during this season started because of Christmas, Hanukkah, or Saturnalia we all want to enjoy the season now, and we should have every right to; ALL of us.
And Christians of all people should know enough to be at least a little respectful of others. If I want to call the tree I stick in my living room a Hanukkah Bush, you really shouldn’t feel threatened, nor threaten me in return.
2005 in a minute (or five)
UPDATED: Now with Pictures
It’s the wee hours of 2006 and I thought this would be a good time to reflect just a little on where I’ve come in a year. A lot has happened.
This time last year Mindy and I still weren’t sure where we would be in the fall. She had only applied to Vanderbilt and was still waiting to hear back before applications for other schools where due. Mid-January she received her letter of acceptance, and shortly there after we got word of the financial aid we would receive, and our decisions was made. We were going to Nashville.
As soon as I knew Nashville would be our home for the next couple years I started looking for friends. First I told my long time friends from Madison, Chip and Kristen, that we would soon be neighbors. I then connected with one of my most helpful resources and Nashville confidants, Justis on RelevantMagazine.com’s Message Board. From there it was on to searching for a church, or at least information about church. I had an very interesting encounter with one church while on the phone. The second church I connected with, through a phone call and their online message board, was the one we would settle into when we got to Nashville. LeslieMe was an amazing help in preparing for our move down.
Meanwhile, Mindy and I enjoyed our last semester at Wheaton. We’d had a wonderful first semester of our senior year. I finished my IDS project and was set for a relaxing spring semester. Mindy had just finished a grueling semester of multiple labs and tough classes. The spring semester was full of interesting classes, teachers, and assignments. I had a wonderful time in Advanced Developmental Psychology, discussing everything from sexism to racism, coming of age and racism. In Contextualization I had the great opportunity to put together a Tithing project to encourage the 400+ graduating seniors at Wheaton to make a commitment to tithe 10% of their income once they started “real” life after graduating. I audited Sociology of the Family with Dr. McMinn, mostly because she is awesome and I had to at least one more class to take with her. I was still playing basketball on Saturday’s with the boys at Cook County. I helped Keane do a project about Roosevelt Road. Basically, we drove down about twenty miles of Roosevelt from Wheaton to Lake Michigan, interviewing people in the neighborhood every two miles and taking pictures as well.
Saturday mornings for the last few feeks of school were spent talking with friends about what it means to be good stewards of our money and lives after graduation. The idea came from some good conversations during out amazing spring break trip to Florida. Some of the last Sundays we started having potluck’s with friends which was a absolute highlight of the year. Springtime found us losing the championship IM soccer game, but taking home a wonderful First place in IM Water Polo.
Graduating was nothing too exciting, but it was an absolute joy to have my parents and Mindy’s folks all come down for the occassion. We chilled at the apartment for a week or two longer and then it was out of Wheaton forever. Speaking of the apartment, second semester was our first time sharing our living space. Zach lived in the second bedroom of our two bedroom apartment during second semester. It was great to enjoy some community, and realize it really isn’t uncomfortable at all to share a bathroom, kitchen and living room.
We spent a tiny bit of summer with family and attending our friends, Joel and Mel’s wedding. Right after that we took the 10 hour drive down to Nashville, our new home. We crashed at Kris and Chip’s for a week while we looked for an apartment and a job. We quickly found our apartment just four short blocks from Godchaux hall where Mindy would be attending nursing school.
I had high hopes that I would get a job at the Oasis Center, just blocks from our new apartment. That and a couple other close jobs didn’t work out until I scored the Life Skills Specialist position at Monroe Harding.
Before we entered full time life in Nashville we took a little vacation. Mindy headed further south for some quality girl time with Megan and Nana. I headed to New York with Keane for some good ol’ brother bonding. The vacationing ended with a weekend in Wheaton with friends for Chris and Rebecca’s Wedding. Then it was back to Nashville for life to begin (all be it with a broken down car).
During our first weeks back we bought a new car (okay, new to us). We were renting out our second bedroom. We were hanging with folks from Mosaic. Life in Nashville was off to a good start.
My job was and has been very exciting. Some of the highlights have been Life Skills Jepordy, making a movie with the Parenting class, model cars, flag football, PG-13 players skits, and going to a High Rope Course. Still in the works are a book project, a rap workshop, web design, typing, and video classes, basketball, and maybe some sports tournaments. Mindy’s first semester included both difficult classes and very exciting clinicals. She’s made some good friendships and learned a lot of important things.
Some of the year end highlights included Mindy kicking some major butt on her finals, spending Christmas in Minnesota (and a lot more for Mindy), and some quality time with new friends.
A bit longer then you might have been looking for, but that’s the year for ya.