Further Thoughts On Church

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I wanted to layout some further thoughts from my rambling post on Monday. First of all, thank you to everyone who commented, it really lent me some insight. So, undoubtedly, some of what I write below is in response to some of the thoughts shared. I’m also encouraged that so many people have found churches that break the traditional mold I tend to see everywhere I go.  So, my thoughts below aren’t about individual churches (if the shoe doesn’t fit…), but rather a question or thought about the “Christian” community as a whole.

The Bible

People, inside of the church and outside, have a lot of different views of this book. It’s authoritative History, good advice, fairy tale, or oppressive manifesto. It’s ancient for sure, but like many old text, there are some tidbits of advice that are universal. Christians claim the Bible as their authoritative text, but most don’t seem to have ever read it themselves. I think they should read it. But, then there’s also the crew that jumps on the Bible-in-a-Year bandwagon and attempts to cram through the whole book time and again. My main concern is that we are reading but not doing what it says.  And by doing what it says, I don’t mean condemning people who don’t believe it’s rules, but rather following the admonishes ourselves (Love your enemies, Feed the poor, put others before yourselves, do not judge, etc). I’d almost think we’d be fine just putting away our Bibles for the rest of our lives and spend our time actually trying to implement what we know we should and aren’t.

Sermons

Most of my thought falls into the same category as the Bible. Isn’t there a point when the pastor, or the group, re-evaluates and says “this isn’t working.” There’s benefit to public speaking, informing, challenging, etc. But when a large group of people get together week after week to motivate themselves to follow Jesus and do what the Bible says, isn’t there a point when you raise a question as to whether it’s actually happening or not? I’m not an outsider by any means, but I think any logical person could spend a few weeks around a church and say there is a huge gaping difference between what they are preaching and what they are doing.
Part two of sermons is this idea that one person in an entire congregation (almost always a male) some how is gifted to be the only one who speaks to the entire group on a weekly basis. I’m sorry, but I see absolutely no basis for that in the Bible I read.

Music

Some people love the music at church. I used to, but now I can’t stand it. My opinion of the singing is really summed up in this one passage, Amos 5:21-24. Part of which reads:

“Away with the noise of your songs!
I will not listen to the music of your harps.

But let justice roll on like a river,
righteousness like a never-failing stream!”

I can’t imagine we’ve come much farther then the Israelites in those days, in fact, I think we are probably in many ways far worse.

Communion and Sacraments

I feel similar about these as the Music above. I don’t want to diminish the value of rituals or sacred acts, I think they are a very important part of ours or any culture. And yet, they’re sacredness to me is so diminished by our inaction, that in many ways I struggle to see the value at all.
And I’ll be honest, especially for all you non-Christians out there, I just find communion bizarre. I dig that it was originally done at a passover meal, and it’s connection to the Hebrew prayers over the bread and wine at Passover and Shabbat. But, the whole drink my blood and eat my body stuff? I still don’t get it.

Community

Most folks who gave their reason behind church mentioned community. I couldn’t agree more. I think church has been a great way for me to meet other people from my community (both geographically and common values). However, simply community, in and of itself, isn’t a very compelling reason to attend. Many people find deeper community with others through a whole host of other activities (sporting events, meals, video games, cooking, hobbies, outings, etc). Don’t get me wrong, I’m a huge advocate of community, I just think pointing to church (particularly Sunday morning) as an example of deep Christian community is pretty disappointing.

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YouTubesday: How To Make a Baby and Walmart Growth

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The internet here has been terrible so I couldn’t watch many videos to post for YouTubesday, so you have a brief selection. Sorry, hopefully it will be better next week.

How to Make a Baby (SFW), a photo project during pregnancy

Walmart’s growth in the United States. An interesting map. No commentary.

Why Do You Go To Church?

This is an off the cuff thought, but I haven’t had much interest or motivation to attend church lately.
It’s not just that it’s hard to get the kiddo ready to go and venture out in the freezing cold on a Sunday morning, there’s more then that.

It’s also not that I’m against churches completely or anything, I’ve enjoyed the opportunity to meet other people in my neighborhood who share similar values. We’ve connected, via the small groups and service projects, with other people in our community.

I guess, I just sort of start to wonder, “what’s the point?” I’ve probably heard well over 500 sermons in my life (others of you have heard a TON more). And it’s true, there are some cool preachers out there that can put a new spin on things, lend some interesting insight into a topic or Bible passage. Yet, it’s just another interesting media input. I can watch great sermons online, listen to them during my walk, read a book on the topic or consume some other medium at my own convenience. When I show up on Sunday I mostly small talk with the one or two people I know, listen to some music and head home.

I’m rambling here, my intent was mostly to ask the question of you. I’m not looking for you to convince me of anything, I’d just like to know your own personal motivation for attending Church (if you do). Or, in a similar vein, why do you read the Bible?

Drop your answer below.

(P.S. I’ve added a new comment plugin called IntenseDebate. It adds some neat features, comment threads, reply by email, and more. You don’t have to register or anything. Please let me know what you think, if it works, or if it’s a pain in the butt).

2008 Book Reviews: 52 Books Read in 52 Weeks

Last year I made it a goal to read 52 books in the year. No specifics on the books, authors, length or anything, just to read a book a week through the entire year. And I pretty much reached my goal (see the list at the end of the post). I realized in the last half week that I had miscounted and was a book shy, but what are you going to do. As a resort to my middle school english class days I wrote a brief book review each week on the book I read. For those who are interested, there’s a nice collection of book reviews here.

This year, I want to read the books I avoided last year, either because they were too long to finish in a week or too academic (read: boring). I also want to catch up on my reading of Geez Magazine and a few other noteworthy articles, essays and the likes.

I am entertaining the idea of doing weekly video book reviews on children’s books I think or worthwhile. You’ll get to watch my cute kid play peek-a-boo with the camera and I’ll mention what picture book we liked that week. Anyone interested? We’ll see, no guarantees unless there is a high demand.

My 2008 Book List (get authors and my recommendations here OR use the search bar in the top right to find my book review on each one):

Buy Buy Baby
Slaughterhouse Five
Giving Up
Serving with Eyes Wide Open
White Man’s Grave
Jesus and the Disinherited
The God of Intimacy and Action
The Other Side of The River
The Paradox of Choice
The Heavenly Man
Playing for Pizza
No Future Without Forgiveness
Sheparding a Child’s Heart
The Manga Bible
The 4-hour Workweek
It’s a Bunny Eat Bunny World
Jesus For President
My Beautiful idol
The Church Ladies
Letters To a Young Teacher
Traveling Mercies
Reconciliation Blues
Porn Nation
Hokey Pokey
The Dip
The Hidden Power of Electronic Culture
When Friends Ask About Adoption
Sex God
God for President
New Day Revolution
Oh Shit! It’s Jesus!
Rapture Ready!
Come On People
What Does it Mean to Be Well Educated?
Rules for Radicals
Plan B
The Great Brain
The Church of 80% Sincerity
Grace (Eventually)
Here Comes Everybody
The Dance of Attachment
Bird By Bird
Operating Instructions
Abortion Book
Blue Shoe
war and terrorism
sway
The Long Tail
Outliers
Chicago: Never a City So Real
The Myth of Multitasking
The Shack

Top 10 Post from 2008

After a brief review, I present to you, the Top 10 Posts from 2008. I started with the most commented on posts, and then sorted through for the ones I felt carried quality content. That said, some of the best content is within the comment sections of some of these posts, so do hope on over and join the conversation. (In no particular order)

  1. My December Experiment: Female Pronouned God
    My attempt to think about things differently
  2. To Christians in California, Arizona and Florida (Vote NO on Marriage Amendment)
    My opinion on Prop 8 and how people should vote
  3. Is It Radical? Or Consistent Ethics?
    Trying to make sense of the typical conservative Christians views
  4. The Whole “USA’s Got My Back” Thing
    Trying to live out my faith in our violent society
  5. Moving Beyond Pro-Birth
    A vision for the church on abortion
  6. Open Letter to Anyone Returning from a Missions Trip
    Thoughts on Christian Missions
  7. Book Review: Shepherding a Child’s Heart
    Some insight into my views on disciplining children
  8. Quit Ripping on The Plastic Bags
    Let’s be logical about our ‘green’ craze
  9. Another False Premise of Short-Term Missions
    More thoughts on short term missions
  10. HELLO My Name Is….
    If you haven’t already, stop by and say “Hi”

A final quick plug…

Giving UpBuy my Book: Giving Up

This is a brief little plug to students buying books for next semester on Amazon or for those with a little extra Amazon credit after the holiday season. I was able to get the price dropped to $5.05, so we are talking pocket change for some of you folks. Think of it this way, if you’ve got $20 worth of merchandise and your looking for something to get your over $25 so you can get free shipping, add Giving Up to your cart.
I’m not making a penny from it, so don’t feel obligated in any way. If you want to read it on your computer I’ve got a pdf I’ll send you.

YouTubesday: Dymond Milburn, Immigration, and Christmas

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This is sad and disturbing, but you need to know this kind of thing happens

I funny, slightly offensive, cartoon about Immigration. (politically a bit outdated, but always relevant)

Apparently this is a video from a church. I found it pretty funny. And a good example of a church getting a bit creative.

And one last Christmas video, about were your toys come from. I don’t think GOOD, nor do I, intend to make some kind of political point by the video below. I’m not set on where the balance between all the issues of globalization, shopping locally, fair trade, and everything else collide. Let me know your thoughts.

Starting a New Year; Building on the Year Before

2009 Glasses
The end of the 200_ Glasses. So sad.

2008 was a great year. While 2007 was full of changes (new parents [baby], new city, new house, new jobs, new friends, and new community), 2008 was about enjoying our new place with the knowledge that we’d finally settled down for the long haul. It was great to spend a summer knowing that we’d see all the same kids running around next summer. Making friends knowing that we weren’t going to pack up and move the following year. It was good to know that we were staying.

2009 will be our first time we’ll be in the same home for a second year in a row (and many more to come).  I’m very excited about how much we’ve learned and become involved in our community in just the past year. And though we’ve gotten involved, we’ve also sat back, soaked it up, opened our ears, and had patience to learn from others and become a part of the community we’ve joined. We’ve probably got a few more years before we are truly a part of things, but we are excited for that day too.

I tend to make goals for myself anyways, and since January 1st is a good time to set yearly goals, I know I’ll find myself making a few. Have you made any Resolutions this year? I’d love to hear them. One of my big goals last year was to read 1 book a week through the entire year. If you’ve been reading my book reviews you saw I was pretty much right on track (I’ve still got half of book 52 left).  This year I plan on focusing on writing.  I’ll spare you the details, but I’ll probably try and share a bit of what I’m writing on this blog, rather then doing double duty. The first goal is to write some sort of finance/stewardship type book. hopefully you’ll enjoy that.

I also want to try and interact more in the comments section of posts. I’m not always good at dialogging with people’s comments after I post on a topic. My goal is to make an effort to dialog more, so do come back and converse please! We’ll see how it works out.

Alright, all done for now. Happy New Year!

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